Sex – Soulmates – Everybody has at least one

Warriors Have the Best Sex – If you can see and feel both past and future, if you know how evanescent everything is, you are uniquely qualified to value each moment.

Warriors Recognize Each Other – Game knows game. What level are you? We bring each other up to levels previously unknown and unexplored.

DREAMS – Do you dream of a lost twin? Do you look in the mirror and see another face? When you see someone across a crowded room, touch their hand, do you feel a strange galvanic charge? Do you accept that soulmates are possible? Is there only one – from birth – or can soulmates be developed? Feeling disenchanted with sex? Do you have sex dreams that are more like night terrors? Does sex make you feel increasingly worthless and untouchable? Your subconscious is missing its other half.

Soulmates Are Real And You Will Find Yours – It’s never too late. Some of us take long development to become Seers able to even recognize a soulmate. You are never so “lost” you can’t find your soulmate. The problem is, your soulmate feels just the way you do and you are frightened of those feelings and longing to escape them. You want your soulmate to rescue you, but you will have to rescue each other. This takes a lot of bravery, a lot of humility, much insight and a little magic.

Challenge – There are plenty of frogs out there and some vipers, and we have kissed plenty. Possibly more than once. It’s also possible that we have “rewired” our system – through porn, games, and casual sex – so that it actually prevents us from finding a soulmate and forging a life bond. This is why starting as friends is so critical. It gets your defenses down to the point where you can talk about fears, desires and problematic reactions. You can go slowly, make mistakes and be prepared to learn.

Danger – Sometimes – let’s face it – most times, you and your soulmate are “sick.” You have “caught” an infection from a society that says “fuck you” to eternal, mystical, mutual sexual union. That makes things hard. You won’t get “well” overnight. You will have to practice good mental, emotional, physical, spiritual and sexual hygiene and you will both have to figure out what that is. You must make the map – in each other’s minds and bodies – for yourself. If the other person refuses to get “well” you must get away from their toxicity. The most important part of soulmating is a mutual pledge for health and growth – for both of you.

Opportunity – My book, I’ll Sleep When You’re Dead – is about the supernatural powers of soulmates. It’s about what to do when you dislike your soulmate at first. It’s about what to do when you and your soulmate both have horrific pasts and are pursued by actual demons. I can’t say it clearer than that. Don’t be frightened. Your bond is eternal, across time, geography and multiverses. Take it slow. You have all the time in the world.

#Haiku: Ambisextrous

Birthed – I
Splash
Into you
Drenched,

Once
Halved, now
Wholed as
Doubling triples
Us